Monday, July 14, 2014

For the Birds

As of this week i decided this Southern Hemisphere thing is for the birds.  Literally, think about it.  Birds fly South for the winter from the North because in the Southern Hemisphere our summers (your winters) are glorious!  But as far as our winters go they are dreary and dreadfully COLD.  Prior to living here, i thought i could handle cold.  And to be honest, it isn't THAT cold here compared to other places.  We don't have snow and the cold temps dip only around 32 degrees.  It was colder than that at times in CA.  (Which is why it is interesting that both a Russian and native Minnesotian living in Auckland say they feel colder here than in their respective countries)  The difference is that other countries have HEAT.  You know, things like central heating, fire places, insulation and windows that keep the draft out.  Central heating apparently hasn't been invented here yet and starting a fire is frowned upon, so our best heat solutions are small space heaters for each room, electric blankets, blowing into our hands and multiple layers of clothing.  i am NOT exaggerating when i say some of us can be found at any given time of day wearing 2 pairs of socks plus slippers, leg warmers, a beanie and gloves while IN the house.  The kids were amusing themselves this morning during breakfast as they could see their breath the entire time.  (i am of the opinion the only time you should see your breath in the morning while making breakfast is because you are camping!)  

i had a brilliant revelation the other day as to why this cold weather was pulling me into such a funk.  In the past i've never dreaded winter, i've always looked forward to the change in seasons.  In the past, cold frosty weather typically meant one thing NESTING for the HOLIDAYS!  Winter and rainy days meant staying indoors for cozy time by the fire, preparing upcoming holiday meals for friends and family, decorating for Thanksgiving or Christmas, and wrapping presents.  BUT, its JULY here... JULY!!!  i am currently on a mission to convince my family that we should celebrate Christmas in JULY and put this "Let's-bundle-up-weather" to good use.  Who knows we may generate extra heat with Christmas lights.  They all laughed at me originally but based on the calendar Riley came up with today, i am thinking they will come around...

But until they do, i will warm my fingers by typing up all the reasons i love NZ and reminisce of warm sunny beach BBQ's of December past. 
New Zealand is beautiful and we are so blessed to live here.


Our local beaches come in all styles and colors.   

Are you in the mood for Black Sand and massive waves? 


Or is it a White Sandy Beach you are after?

A ten minute jog in one direction takes us to the appropriately named Red Beach 

A ten minute walk in the opposite direction lands us on a sand and lava beach.

A 2 minute steep walk down the stairs finds us in a hidden fishing spot

where fish are so accessible Kyle can catch 'em with his bare hands


The starfish also vary in their colour and size 

itty bitty

to REALLY BIG

There was no question as to why New Zealand was chosen as the location to bring Tolkein's books to life.  It is a magical wonderland filled with things only thought to exist in fairytales and children's imagination.
Black Swans

Spotted Red Toadstools that must be homes to fairies and gnomes


Steaming and hissing earth that is hot to the touch


Bubbling gurgling mud pools

Hidden Maori Carvings

Common sightings of double and full rainbows

Hibiscus the size of our head

Pods of dolphins having a swim by our window



Sheep having a graze... everywhere

The well loved NZ silver fern which hides its silver on its back

Diners where graffiti is encouraged

Sacred Volcanos that we hope stay dormant

Playgrounds on beaches with equipment that would be banned in the States.  Parks filled with parents and kids playing side by side.  None of this parental observing from a distant bench.  Kiwi dads are climbing play structures and teaching 2 year olds how to take down another toddler in a game of diaper rugby.  

Abundance of trails and islands beckoning us to explore



  Night time is just as amazing.  Stars are brilliantly bright and the milky way is always on display. 


The truth is it is beautiful, magical AND very cold here.  i CAN'T wait till the sun starts showing us her sweet self again on a regular basis.  Local Kiwis keep assuring me this is a more dreary winter than normal.  i am still trying to wrap my head around the fact that i'm freezing here in JULY while just last week i was snorkelling in warm waters.   

There is much we have to be thankful for... one of them being my bathroom.  
Did i happen to mention to you the most wonderful room in the house?!  It's a small room with a sink and a shower, hardly enough room for 2 people to get ready at the same time.  i lock myself in there sometimes during the day and not because i want to clean up or hide from my kids.  It's WARM in there!  It has HEATERS...  MULTIPLE heaters!!  A heated towel rack that i can warm my fingers on!  A floor heater under the tile that i can actually feel through my slippers!  A defogger for the mirror to keep the steam off!  It is so cozy in there sometimes it is difficult to leave.  Why homes here have these features but not central heating or double pane windows, i'll never know.



But when my kitchen is howling and the socks i stuffed in the window isn't keeping the wind and dirt out, you'll know where to find me.



Monday, March 31, 2014

Sitting On The Edge Of The Sea

The Beach.The Ocean.The Sea  
i have always loved it and been in awe of it, which is why i can't help but share its varied beauty with you.  Everyday all four of us look out the window amazed by what we see.  We are super thankful to have found a rental with extraordinary views, which isn't very hard to do when you live on a peninsula on an island.   No matter where we drive, we can't get away from the water.  Perfectly fine with me.  

i have come to love and appreciate the sea even more.  Every hour of the day produces a different colour in both the sky and water.  From where we sit we can see the undercurrents beneath the ocean's surface.  We watch the ocean churn from stormy winds, listen to the waves crash on rocks below and gaze upon clouds effortlessly changing their colour.  Stunned by beauty everyday.  Who knows how long we will get to live here but for now we are loving our front row seats to an ever changing and brilliant art show.  

To quote Riley:
  "We sit in the front row of God's art gallery and everyday He paints something different." 
                                                                                                                        





Waves crash over holes
Covering footprints and sand
Then slips away.
Kyle 


"The song of the sea...  Yes, it's blue in the sunshine", she said, "and it's grey in the rain.  I've seen it golden with sunlight, silver with the moonlight and black as ink at night.   It's never the same twice."
The  Man Whose Mother Was a Pirate ~ a  NZ children's story





"And there was the sea, all jumping with sparkles in the sunshine, as far as ever you could see." 
~ Milly Molly Goes to the Sea






He made the moon for the seasons; the sun knows the place of its setting. Thou dost appoint darkness and it becomes night.
Psalms 104:19






The heavens are telling of the glory of God: and their expanse is declaring the work of His hands.  Day to day pours forth speech.
Psalms 19:1

Tuesday, March 18, 2014

The Brightside of Culture Shock

Would you believe in some ways i've experienced more culture shock here in NZ than i did when we first moved to Dubai?  Really, it's my own dumb fault.  Prior to moving to Dubai, i devoured every book i could get my hands on.  i scoured blogs and met people online who lived there.  i mentally prepared myself for the differences in food, language, culture and friendships.  There were times in Dubai i was surprised i wasn't more shocked.  That's not so say there weren't any challenges because there were but i had braced myself for them and was mentally ready.  i was after all, moving to the Middle East.

When planning the move to NZ, we actually turned down the option to take a preview trip to get a feel for the country because we figured if we can adjust to Dubai, how easy will it be to adjust to a place like NZ??  The only things i really knew about NZ when i landed was that it is beautiful, i'd have to drive on the wrong other side of the road, and the advise from my Ozzie friend, "You will be surprised how small town it is."

If i had to label Dubai, i would say it is a Third World Country Dipped in Glitz and Glam.
Here in NZ, where people, birds and fruit are all called kiwis, i'd describe it as a No Frills Beauty.  Kiwi the people, are very casual and seem to want nothing to do with glitz or glam.  

i think because NZ appears on the surface to be so similar to the US the differences that continue to crop up take me by surprise.  In Dubai, i walked out the door expecting massive differences from my own home culture to assault me everyday.  Here i don't expect differences which is why the subtle NZ differences take me by surprise.  Here are some things i am trying to get used to

1. Cars, streets, houses and closets are small and simple.  Shoes and shirts are optional here.  Go to any public area; the grocery store, church, a restaurant (not limited to fast food) or an elective class and you will see children AND adults walking around without shoes.



2.  ALL wine bottles have screw off tops which make it a perfectly acceptable beverage to bring with your brown bag lunch... to WORK.  Today while waiting for my car service, i watched an employee stick his lunch bag and wine bottle back in the fridge after his lunch break.  

3.  There is a hole in the ozone layer down here which makes the sun really intense when the cloud cover disappears.  Skin cancer rate is at an all time high and we feel ourselves burn more here than we ever did in the Arabian desert.  Everyday we slather on sunscreen, wear hats and drive passed numerous skin cancer centres. 

3a. Dealing with my computer which spell checks all my words with British spelling.  Case in point...  centres
    

4.  Things are really expensive here!  
Gas cost (in converted American terms) $6.70 a gallon.  
Limes cost $11 a pound.  
This becomes a problem when you are used to driving to the store in your car to pick up a bunch of limes.   

5. Kiwis don't use dryer.  They hang all their clothes outside to dry.  (Take note: going barefoot around town=less laundry to hang. See#1)  
Dryers don't work very efficiently and things like electricity is costly. See#4.  Clothes dry really fast outside in the sun.  See#3
45 minute in the sun to dry for free verses 1.5 hours in the dryer to have the clothes only less damp for about $7.

Let me interrupt myself here and clarify that i am not complaining. i have come to realise (British spelling!) that being an expat in one country does not make you an expert expat in another country.  Parts of life here have surprised me more than i thought because i wasn't prepared and i assumed NZ culture would have little differences from America.  i have learned that with every cultural difference or nuance i encounter it is best to look on the Brightside

My Brightside is Stanmore Bay!
(For the record, besides the arrows, NONE of the pictures are photoshopped.  The sky really does look that blue.)

When you are on a peninsula on an island, it makes for amazing views no matter where you live or drive which helps ease some of the challenges.

The Brightside of hanging laundry is the view.  
Hanging laundry here makes feels like i'm in a laundry softener commercial.

Ok, back to my list....
6.  Kiwi's have an internal clock which instinctively tells them which side of the island is better to be at on any given time of the day.  This American, not so much.

When i was told to take Riley to point A for kayaking that is what i did.  After an hour of driving around looking for the girls kayaking group and not finding them, i felt an idiot and tearfully figured i must have not understood the directions.  Finally giving up and taking a very disappointed little girl back towards home, we accidentally found the group at point B.  "Yep, we decided to move the girls to the side that was not so windy.  Glad you finally found us."
You're probably wondering like i was, why they didn't call the poor American who might not know the change locations rule.  4 leaders, 20 girls kayaking without parents around for 6 hours and no one had a mobile phone on them.  (Blank stare)

Kiwi's are tough and don't worry about emergencies i guess.  

Brightside...
We drove around lost for an hour but discovered this super fabulous picture spot 


Which means we knew EXACTLY where to take Grandma Burnett for the group picture she wanted during her visit.


7.  NZ homes don't have air-conditioning or heaters.  If you want to heat your home when it gets cold in the winter, which it does, you buy a space heater.  When you want to cool your home during the summer you open your windows.  Sounds magical right?!  (Especially coming from Dubai where we had to have 7 air-conditioning units in one house to keep any one of the units from overworking and blowing out, which they did anyways but i digress.) 

"Ahhh...Open windows cooling the entire house," said in a dreamy voice.

Insert sound effect of record scratch and dreamy music coming to a stop

~Reality~ 
Kiwi's also don't believe in window screens ANYWHERE.
i DO have a beautiful breeze which will usher in cooler temperatures but will also bring along large leaves, cicadas (google 'em if you've never seen those harmless but ugly guys) flies, 
newts, spiders, moths, mozzies (Kiwi for mosquitos) wasps and all sorts of new bugs we've never seen before but like our dishes.


To ease our nerves, we have been assured there are no poisonous spiders or snakes in NZ and we were introduced to the automatic bug sprayer which installs into the house and cuts down the bug population from a booming metropolis to a small city.

Brightside...
We've have embraced different insects and learned a lot from letting them live in our garage.





    
  

  
 8. "New Zealand is a parliamentary democracy and constitutional monarchy with The Queen as Sovereign."
As stated by the Official Website of the British Monarchy

American English Translation:
  •  Prince William, Kate and Prince George are hanging out in NZ for a bit this month
  • As Americans we are referred to as Yanks or Yankee and they make comments about our "accent."
  • i have to ask people to repeat themselves and vise versa because we can't understand each others' "English"
  • They fill their pies with MEAT instead of FRUIT.
  • We don't always understand each others' humour.
  • When they hear my "accent" they quickly want to pawn me off set me up on a blind friendship with another American they know.  "You'll get along brilliantly, you're both so much alike."  (Should i take offence when that other American is 60 years old, has a loud cackle for a laugh, won't stop talking and makes obnoxious jokes?)  
  • i now drive on the OTHER side of the road and throughout the day you may see me...

Get in the passenger side of the car to drive

Look for my seatbelt over the wrong shoulder

Signal to turn only to have my windshield wipers turn on

Brightside...
i am better at actually driving on the other side of the road than i am at getting into the car. 
i'm officially an ambidextrous driver.


Transitioning into a new culture can be tricky, difficult, frustrating, and exciting all at the same time.     
Expat life is not "picture perfect" but we are thankful for all the Brightside stuff we get to discover in NZ!