Saturday, December 8, 2012

Desert Diversions

i have been super quiet in blogger land.  Frequently my mind is swirling with post ideas and i can't tell you how many times i have heard from my family, "Hey, you HAVE to blog about...."  But by the time 9:00pm rolls around my eyes can hardly focus enough to see the computer much less jump start my flat lined brain waves.  In addition,  Blogger just informed me i have exceeded my number of photo uploads so i've had to spend some time figuring out how to alleviate that problem.  

i have learned in Dubai is there is NO time to be bored.  The word desert used to conjure up images of vast emptiness and images of loneliness.  No more.  There is a constant swirl of activity to jump into.  Accordingly, this post is an eclectic look at the flurry of diversions available to us the past few weeks.


Exciting birthday parties fill weekends with merriment that make mommies and daddies want to don party hats.


Race Car driving at the indoor Autodrome



Getting prettied up "Hello Kitty Style!"


Results of a "bow in the hair up do."

A mani, pedi, new hairdo, some pink cake and a rendition of Gangnam style karaoke rounds off this girl's first day at the spa.  




A Desert Safari is a pleasant detour from the lights of the city.  The only animals you will see on this safari are camels and falcons but with all the camel sightings, the children have become a bit jaded.  They no longer want to wait in line for a ride, they prefer taking to the sandy slopes.  

i've come to love some of the sights of the desert.  It really has a beauty all its own.  Riley calls the sand 'cinnamon' which is a perfect description because it looks exactly like that.  Its fine grains are unlike anything else i've ever seen.  



A few random trees manage to thrive in the desert even though the wind blows away the sand from their base, exposing their roots.


The highlight of the Safari is the Dune Bashing.  In the states we call it 4 wheeling.  Here Dune Bashing seems a better description as the activity consists of  placing your life in the hands of your driver as he navigates over the hills... while talking on his mobile...  


...while looking for other people to rescue.



Sand Angels



The evening culminates with an Arabic dinner under the stars where boys toast to having full access to the unlimited cans of Fanta


and little girls visit the henna tent.


The evening dinner show is a Tandora dancer (not to be confused with tandoori chicken) who spins around forEVER and when he stops he isn't the least bit tippy.  i on the other hand feel nauseous just watching him.


A Desert Safari just isn't complete without stopping to pet the falcon.



My supposed Great Photo-op!

During the Eid holiday i decided to meet up with a photography group i had recently joined to take advantage of the 24 hour opening of specific places.


The Burj Khalifa is iconic Dubai and sunrise @4:30am on the 124th Observation Deck seemed like an wonderful opportunity so shoot some amazing pictures. 



Except that particular morning was the haziest day we had seen in a LONG time.


Then to top it off (you would appreciate my wit if you knew the observation deck is called "At The Top") apparently 4:30 am is a very popular time to visit the world's tallest building.



There were more people than i have EVER seen up there.  So many in fact i couldn't even stand at the window to get a view.  (Yes, that is someone lifting up their camera above the sea of heads to get a shot of the sunrise.)  Funnier still?  This pictures was taken with my back to the sunrise.  It is the reflection of the sun on the building.  Uh huh, that's how crowded it was.    



So, i made the best of it and just started photographing the interesting and colorful crowds around me.  


The windows perspiring


The Indian newscaster all "Reporting Live from the Burj Khalifa..." in his telecaster voice and requiring frequent makeup touch ups while taking up valuable window space. 


Visitors actually making a purchase at the ATM which dispenses real gold.
Although my photo shoot was interesting it certainly was not what i had in mind.




KidZania
The munchkins have been requesting a trip to the children's museum.  In a nutshell it is a place where kids can go to pretend to work in real professions.  This place was pretty much over the top and as Kyle says, "It's right up there with Disneyland."


 Ambulances drive on the streets to rescue some injured child.


Riley volunteered to be an injured patient.  Consequently,  a group little EMTs rushed to her, inspected her and loaded her into the ambulance and rush her back to the hospital.


The great thing about this place, aside from the fact the kids LOVE it AND they have a lounge for the parents to sit, read a magazine and grab a coffee, is that the Littles have to first attend training before they can do a particular job.  Once they train and complete their job they are given money that can be spent or deposited into a bank.  They also can go to university to earn a degree which enables them to earn more $ for doing their job.  



Thankfully, the local fire department arrived just in time to extinguish the fire.



The kids took their jobs very seriously.



When they ordered their lunch they had to go into the McDonalds kitchen to make it themselves.


They bottled their own soda


and had a super fun day pretending to be adults busy at work. 
A bit ironic don't you think since as adults we just want to go back to being kids.





Kyle started Dubai Little League and Chris is helping coach so our Saturdays are now filled with a little bit of Americana as they play ball under the towering Burj.   



i attempted 18 hours of an Arabic class which was even more difficult than i thought and required my children tutoring me in my homework at night.

  



Something else new to us this month is UAE national day.  December 2nd could be compared to our 4th of July.  We have been taking in all the decorating that's driving around.




That colorful glowing rainbow which hearkens some of us back to the days of old school TV is in fact a cruise ship yacht.  It changes colors every so often and happens to belong to the Sheik (which is pronounced 'shake' with a little clearing of your throat at the end  Too bad for him since his boat was recently down graded to only the 2nd largest in the world.



Even with all the nontraditional stuff going on around us we are still finding ways to bring our traditions to Dubai.



Ry buries her head in REAL Christmas fragrant with pine shipped in from Canada. 


And thankfully our Christmas decorations survived the 2 month boat ride!  


i was also able to get in a couple of races before the end of the year with some new running friends and very unique routes. 

A 10K on the The Palm.  
(See pictures and read about the man made island here.)


A 1/2 Marathon in Old Dubai which was scenic since the route carried over under and around the creek area and lead us through the Old Souk (rhymes with soup and means market).


And finally we have been enjoying a garden.  Crazy right?!  i have an herb garden that is flourishing in this beautiful weather.  Better yet,  i have had the privilege of teaching some garden classes at the kids' school as they have an AMAZING organic garden where 2nd and 5th graders come to study science.  



Right here in the middle of the city next to Gate 5 at the kids' school is the most beautiful little organic garden.  Kids can plant, harvest and eat their very own vegetables!  Such a fun way to learn.   



Happy December from the Desert!

Monday, October 29, 2012

Things That Make Us Chuckle

One absolute truth about living in a different culture is that you learn to not take yourself so seriously.  It has been so good for us to be out of our comfort zone, lighten up and find humor in situations.  Our sheltered little American selves are learning to look past preconceived expectations and laugh... a lot.  If laughter is the best medicine we are going to be the most healthy people in Dubai!


Situations that are currently cracking us up.

1.  i call maintenance to come and fix a toilet that doesn't seem to be flushing that well.  They show up at my door with a screw driver and a bucket.  In normal circumstances i would find it odd that a plumber would show up with the same cache of tools.  Here however it works because 20 minutes behind a closed door, because i just can't bear to watch, they reveal a fully functioning toilet.

2.  Just when we become dependent on making several U-turns to reach a desired destination we find this....

   
Which is HILARIOUS now but not at the time.  You see, Chris was frantically trying to reach the bank (which requires several U turns) before it closed for the long holiday weekend because we were in the middle of the very long process of buying a car.  (Side note to the already existing side note: in the UAE if you are even the slightest bit off on your signature at the bottom of your check it WILL be rejected.)  Chris signed the check in front of the car salesman and showed him 4 or 5 different forms of ID declaring him to be without a doubt the same Chris signing the check.  However after waiting 5 days the bank called to let us know that the check would not be clearing, not because of lack of funds, but because it was obviously NOT Chris' signature on the check.

3.  OSHA would definitely NOT approve of finding these boxes scattered around the school campus.

The good news is they must work because i have yet to see a "rodent."

4. Sometimes people intermingle with cars on very busy roadways.  (NOT a parking lot.)


5.  Common knowledge at a gas station right?!  No smoking, turn off your car and don't use your cell phone.  The fabulous thing about Dubai is that you don't have to pump your own gas so you can just stay in your car.  What do you do to pass the time while you wait?... talk on the cell phone.  How do you keep cool in the heat while waiting for your car to be filled?... you leave the ignition on with the air condition running.  The first time we did this my heart was thumping in my chest as i was sure any moment our car would instantly detonate.  Obviously we survived.  Thankfully, i have yet to see someone actually light up a smoke.   One rule followed out of 3 isn't bad.


6.  Sending fliers out for our first ever neighborhood "Trick or Treat" but having to include exact details as to what it means to "Trick or Treat."

6.  Today was the best though.  Even my kiddos were in the back seat laughing out loud.  The car that we finally were able to purchase after spending 3 weeks at the dealership, had to go in for a Regularly Scheduled Service.  "Should take 2-3 hours," they assured me.  i asked if while the car was in the shop,  they could take a peek at one of the side view mirror as it wasn't adjusting in every direction from the inside console.   "Of course but that would add at least another 2 hours to the service time."  No problem, we grabbed a cab home.  It wasn't until the next day the car was ready and when i picked it up, we found this.

 
While in the process of trying to get to the motor of the side view mirror it was broken and unfortunately they don't have a spare of either.  The good news is when the 2 parts come in they will call me and fix it FOC (free of charge)!

Thursday, October 25, 2012

HaPpY bIrThDaY!

Happy Birthday to our "Little Man" who is becoming less little everyday!



Can a 10 year old still be called 
"Pee Wee!?"






You are a wonderful brother and your sis is one of your biggest fans



... even if you are ornery at times... 

i adore your knobby soccer knees

along with all your other athletic skills








It has been such a joy for us to watch you grow into the young man you are becoming.  
You are the most insightful kiddo who never ceases to blow us away with your discernment.  You are adventurous in ways we never previously imagined.  i love that you know exactly when your body needs a snuggle!
Your family adores you and we are so blessed to have been gifted you.  



 i love you a bushel and a peck to the moon and back!

Wednesday, October 24, 2012

Eid Al Adha

Our first Eid Al Adha is upon us.  i know right?!  What is that?  In the states it is simply called "fall break."  In Dubai our fall break is brought to us compliments of the Muslim holiday "Eid al Adha." 

Most of what i have learned regarding this holiday comes from local Arab friends and the children's Arabic class.  (Here i must digress and share my amazement at how much they have learned of the language in such a short time.  Really, they keep trying to teach me letters and words as if they think i will actually be able to retain the information they so eagerly share with me.  Although i have come to learn certain phrases and greetings, anything written is still completely foreign to me.  They however are able to read actual arabic word which amazes me.)   

It has been interesting to live in a location with an approaching holiday i know nothing about.  The basic expat info of Eid (short for Eid al Adha) is this: much of Dubai takes advantage of the days off and subsequently leaves for other exotic locations while neighboring Saudi residents enter Dubai for 16 days (from what i am told) of relaxation and shopping.  Malls will be open for 24 hours during Eid so no need to worry about how to occupy any extra spare time you may find on your hands.  

As is consistent with the Dubai lifestyle nothing here is easy.  Even though Eid falls in October the exact date is not known until Saudi Arabia announces the moon phases which then determine the exact placement of the holiday.  This means checking the newspaper to find out when the holiday actually falls and what days you will have off.  Moms will also receive numerous emails from school attempting to clarify vacation days.  

(Excerpt taken from actual email.)
 "Now that we know that Arafat day will fall on Thursday, October 25 and the Eid Al Adha will fall on Friday, October 26, I am writing to clarify the impact on the 2012-2013 school calendar. 


Thursday, October 25, will now become a school holiday and as previously communicated and reflected in the school calendar, Sunday and Monday, October 28 and 29 will remain school holidays.  ASD will resume our regular schedule for students on Tuesday, October 30.

As Thursday, October 25 was to have been an instructional day, we will make up this day on Sunday, May 19.  Although I had previously communicated we would likely use Monday, December 3 as a “make-up” date, I’ve heard from both parents and faculty alike that plans have already been made to be out of Dubai on Monday, December 3, as this had been previously communicated to be a four day weekend..." 



Moving on...

In the states Christmas is ALWAYS Dec 25th.  However, in Islam all holidays are based on the waxing and waining of the moon and Saudis announcement of what stage the moon is at in its cycle (not NASA's) which therefore determines at the last minute when the holiday will fall.  

Now on to what the celebration of Eid is about.

"Eid al-Adha is an Islamic festival to commemorate the willingness of Ibrahim (also known as Abraham) to follow Allah's (God's) command to sacrifice his son Ishmael. Muslims around the world observe this event."

Without digressing into a completely theological discussion, i have always been fascinated with the Jewish/Muslim conflict which begansback in the day with Abraham and the birth of his 2 sons, Isaac and Ismael yet hostility has continued throughout all of history.  The account of their birth is recorded in Genesis 21.  Check it out.  (Since this could be a entire other blog post and it is already late, i will move on.) 


Eid al Adah, from what i have been told by Arab friends, is celebrated by gathering large groups of friends and family for meals, celebrating and gift giving.  Typically children are the recipient of cold hard cash (which would explain why the malls are open 24 hours during this time.)  In fact Riley had a class party today in which the class was treated to traditional Arabic treats such as Za'atar, date juice with rose water, Arabic sweets and each child receiving 10 dirhams (Dubai $$) as a kick off to the holiday.  

As for us, this Eid we are planning a "stay cation."  Unfortunately, Chris has to travel as it seems the Koreans don't observe the 5 day Eid holiday.  We have planned to stay local and enjoy the arrival of mild weather (translates as Fall!) by NOT hanging out in the mall but sleeping in, frequent trips to the beach, and outings with other "stay cation" families.  There will be no large family gatherings and the only gifts being handed out will be to one very handsome young man who happens to be turning double digits this Eid which is something to celebrate!!  

Until next time...

Eid Murbarak ~ "Blessed Eid"   
       













Monday, September 24, 2012

Out of the Sandbox

We were super blessed to be able to spend the last 4 weeks of our summer in Europe and 
i am pretty certain that in my wildest imagination i would not be able to dream up a more starkly opposite location from our Dubai Sandbox.


~SWITZERLAND~

Besides belting out random Roger and Hammerstein songs during our stay,

...Edelweiss...

...The Hills Are Alive...

we also experienced some jolting moments of culture shock.

The obvious differences of course; sand verses grass, extreme heat verses beautiful weather,
Snow capped alps
verses
Orange tinted sand dunes


Swan sightings instead of

Camels

The obvious we expected, what surprised us were the things we had grown accustom to in Dubai and suddenly seemed so foreign in Switzerland.



SWISS PRECISION:  Swiss precision permeates everything the Swiss do.  Timeliness and efficiency seem to be built into their DNA.  Even their public transportation is so precise it has been said you can accurately set your watch according to the arrival and departure times of the trains.



  Seriously, even their fire wood is stacked and cut to perfection




















Dubai however is NOT time oriented or precise.  Arriving 45minutes late in Dubai means you are still early.  (Need i refer you to my post on driving?)  Another case in point: At the movie theater one day, an Arab family walked in 45 minutes late to an 84 minute movie.  (Yes, i looked it up)  Heaping tubs of popcorn and all.  45 minutes!!!

SWISS TRAFFIC:  Not only are their speed limits signs adorned with pretty little flower boxes they are adamantly adhered to.



In Switzerland, my slightest pause at a crosswalk, brought cars from both direction to an immediate stop!  The first time it happened i thought it was a complete fluke.  Then i realized they do it all the time, stop for pedestrians that is.  i found myself needlessly crossing streets just because i suddenly had the power to stop traffic.
Crosswalks are practically non-existent in Dubai. NO pedestrian has the right of way. EVER.   i mean even if you are in the middle of a crossing the parking garage with 2 young children in tow and car is headed toward you.  Don't expect them to slow down much less stop.  Which is why i suddenly realized in Switzerland that when my children hear a car coming in the distance they scattered like cockroaches at the sight of first light.  "Run for cover!"

(OK, i must digress here, the 2 above points have completely baffled me ever since arriving in Dubai.  If Dubai culture is not time oriented and has NO concern over arriving late, why does everybody drive at lightening speed?  Where is everybody going in such a hurry?!)


QUENCH THE WANDERLUST  Some people say the Swiss keep to themselves and are not very welcoming to outsiders.  i would disagree, as i know of no other country that welcomes you to explore their country side more thoroughly.  Switzerland greets its visitors by rolling out a welcome mat of trails.  31,000 miles of precisely laid ribboned pathways adorn the green hillside.

Yellow diamond Wanderweg(walk/trail) signs EVERYWHERE beckon you to explore.





Even if that means taking you right through the middle of some one's backyard.


If you don't feel like walking the trail... take the gondola


One of my challenges in Dubai is not having a path to take to for a walk or a jog.   Even if i could bear the heat for a mid-day walk and if by chance i find some sort of walking path, Dubai Wanderwegs end abruptly. 



IT RAINS A LOT in Switzerland:  It is so lush and green and the air is amazing!  With no concern of dry conditions it is perfectly safe to set off large child sized fireworks in the middle of their forests.



(That would be a "Dubai" firework)

As for the weather conditions in Dubai... uh, no comment.




SOUNDS OF MORNING NOON & NIGHT....  In Switzerland there were church bells and the 
constant clang of cow bells always in the distance. 



Instead of the call of prayer resonating from the muezzin 5 times a day.



CHANGE IN DIET:  The staple in Switzerland is beer, brats and pretzels.  




In Dubai beer and any sort of pork product are considered haram or sinful which therefore make it difficult to find and certainly not common place.  Certain restaurants that are licensed to sell alcohol will also be allowed to serve up bacon tainted meals as well.  This explains why my kids get super excited when we enter a restaurant in Dubai and they instantly spot people drinking beer or wine.  You can imagine the looks i get from other people when one of my Littles jumps up and down singing, "YIPPEE!  They serve beer here!!"  Which in their minds means they can order bacon.  Yes, it makes us look like AMAZING parents.  Already branded before we even sit ourselves down to dinner.  Nice! 
So now we are settled back into Dubai as our summer has come to end (vacation that is NOT the heat). 



It has been a bit more difficult adjusting back into life here but thankfully we are finally finding our groove. 

So while in our Sandbox the only chance for us to get a reminder of the starkly different Switzerland

  
is to head to our local Dubai "Alp" the indoor ski slope



otherwise known as